The Cath Lab is OVER... Hallelujah!!!

This is the first major step before his open heart surgery and it feels GREAT to have it behind us!  Here is a little bit about our day yesterday...

We woke Stephen up around 5:45 to walk over to the hospital.  He was clinging to his Mike Trout doll and cuddled up with his new star wars blanket.  On the way over he cracked a smile as he woke up and he remained joyful the ENTIRE day.  Honestly, his emotional response to all of this was WAY better than I had anticipated.  Sure, we talked things through, but I did not expect him to be giggling as we laid him on the procedure table.  I fully excepted him to show some signs of nerves, etc.  But he was SO peaceful...and let's be real...that's ALL God!  He was incredible!  So smiley, so brave and so strong!

As we checked in the nurse noticed his doll and gave him his own special wrist band (that only fit around his neck)
and Stephen thought that was pretty cool!

He was all smiles getting his vitals taken, and even when they were ready for us to walk to the cath lab, he preferred to be wheeled in the bed rather than walk in Joe's arms...again...so surprising!  But so BRAVE!

Both Joe and I were able to be there as they put him to sleep with gas.  He held my hand and we talked about his pets, Angels baseball and his favorite players.  He went down easy, and they let me kiss him goodbye.  Walking out of the room is SO hard...but so is seeing him lying on that table.

The cath labs goal was make sure he can tolerate the Fontan surgery.  They had to go in through an artery and vein in his groin as well as a vein in his neck.  During the procedure they thread a catheter into various parts including his pulmonary artery, atrium and ventricle to collect data on pressures etc.    If there is no work to be done, they get all of the readings they need and it is over.  As it turned out, Stephen had quite a bit of work to be done.

This was a toughie for me.  After the entire procedure was over, and we met with the doctor, I was thrilled that he did not go into heart bock...but felt so deflated on the news she gave.  So, here is my attempt to sum in up...

First, his glenn shunt had narrowed and needed to be ballooned.  This may explain some of the pain he has lately felt in that area.  Next, they found quite a bit of collaterals (extra blood vessels) that needed to be coiled (plugged up).  While this is VERY common in single ventricle patients, they pose a problem for his upcoming surgery...the part I really didn't want to hear!  It turns out he also developed Pulmonary AVMs.  The good news is that they should reverse themselves after the next surgery.  The bad news, they cause lower saturations already, so they could not coil all of his collaterals now or else he could potentially be too blue.

What does this mean for the next surgery?  While they don't know for sure, uncoiled collaterals often cause excess drainage which means he will mostly likely have a longer hospital stay.  He also may need to go back into the cath lab during his recovery to have them coiled (and maybe even right before the surgery).  This will all be discussed with the surgeon before hand to see what he thinks needs to be done.  The AVMs may also cause his oxygen to be lowered, so rather than coming out of the next surgery in the 90s...she prepared us that he may come out much lower, maybe even in the  in the 70s, and could potetnially need to be on oxygen for awhile (even after we return home).  I realize that these are all just "possibilities" and "maybes" but they are new "possibilities" and "maybes" that we had not heard before.

So again, while I was rejoicing in the fact that Stephen tolerated the cath SO well, I was having to process a LOT of new information and it left me feeling a bit dejected.

The good news, it won't kill him.  One of the fellows could tell I was concerned with long term side effects and made this VERY clear to me.  It will make things uncomfortable and hard on him after the surgery, but they are not life threatening...so I am just going to focus on that.  And while I don't love the news, I am grateful to already know it is nothing to be overly concerned about.

SO, today I am going to focus on being grateful to have my boy home and Praise God for His protection and peace over Stephen!

As far as recovery goes, he needs to take it easy for a week.  No running, no baseball, no bikes, scooters...really just little movement period!  Also, no swimming or water emersion and daily dressing changes on the 2 areas.  We will head back to the hospital on Thursday to follow up with cardiology and await the date for surgery.   So, we will be doing a lot of LEGO building, movie watching and hopefully couch cuddling (sounds good to me!!)

And thank you all for your prayers...they truly mean the WORLD to us.  I am still a bit too emotionally drained to get too sappy on you, but know that they carried us through and we are so very grateful.  May God give the doctors and surgeon wisdom is deciding how and when to move forward, and may he continue to give our precious Stephen His peace that TRULY surpasses all understanding!

Jesus, we trust in you!

Here are a few more pictures of our smiley boy =) And PS...I have a new phone!!!  Joe ran to the Apple store in Temecula last night...love that man!

Stephen waiting to be called back to the cath lab

Being wheeled in!

Just after we were allowed to go back into the recovery area and be with him.

Back to his self once the medicine began to wear off and he could talk again!

All dressed and ready to GO HOME!!!!

Last Minute Thoughts

This is it.  Tomorrow when I wake up (if I sleep) we will walk right over to the hospital to check our little guy in.  I keep trying to tell myself "It's only the cath lab!"  because Lord knows the open heart surgery will be SO much harder on him recovery wise.  However, with his past complications this doesn't feel like a walk in the park.  So tonight as I cuddled him to sleep, I kissed him extra and prayed over him, because really...that's all I can do now.  It's out of my hands.  Shoot...it was never in my hands!

At times like these I am constantly reminded of Abraham and his unwavering faith and trust in the  Lord as He asked him to sacrifice his only son Isaac.  I know in my heart I need to hold Stephen up to God with my outstretched arms...but I want so badly to just wrap my arms around him and NEVER let go.

So tonight, as I sit here with the thoughts of tomorrow in my head, I am trying to remind myself of the truths I know (and have been reading in a great book on suffering).  That God loves Stephen deeper than Joe and I ever could.  That He has promised to work ALL things out for the good of those who love Him.  That He can take our suffering and transform it into something beautiful.  That He has never left us and will NEVER leave us.  That God loved each of us SO much that He sacrificed His one and only son that whoever believes in Him shall not parish but have eternal life.  That when seen in the light of the risen life no cross, no suffering of any kind, can be ultimately tragic because God WILL bring perfect, absolute and eternal consolation out of every desolation...especially death.    That God WILL one day wipe away our pain and replace it with warmth, love, peace and joy.  That Jesus does't leave us by ourselves to just "figure it out" but that He is ALWAYS present with us.  And PRAISE God for that!

Which means tomorrow Stephen will not be alone in the operating room with the doctors and nurses, but that the God of this universe will be present with him.  And my prayer is that the Holy Spirit would fill that room with His presence.  That a multitude of angels would watch over and protect our precious son.  And that God would use ALL of this for some greater purpose.

I am truly honored to be Stephen's mommy.  My love for this little guy runs deep.  And tonight, as I want to cling to him and hold him tight, I am trying to remember to look to Jesus...because He is my rock and my refuge, an ever-present help in trouble.

Jesus, I trust in you.

Preparing...

How does one spend the week before her son's heart procedure...getting rid of THINGS!  Oh my word, I have been on a roll!  There is little right now in life that I can control, so I am sure this crazy nesting is just my way of trying to control something, but I feel like I have to prepare somehow...and this is just one of those ways!  I have been trying to go through each room in the house to just purge it of STUFF.  The goal of course is to have a clean house...but I went the DEEP CLEAN route!  Which means it will still look messy for a bit...but once it is clean it will feel SO good!

We were actually CRAZY BLESSED to have a friend come over and power wash the outside of our home, clean ALL my windows and re screen my windows (because my cats literally put a hole in EVERY one).  I can't even...walking up to a no spider web entryway is the BEST!  Thank you Moody family...I appreciate you more than words can describe!

As I am attempting to "prepare" for his Cath procedure, I feel like I need to get things in order for the BIG DAY knowing his open heart surgery is sometime right around the corner.  So, I find myself scrambling to get things in order not knowing if he will be going back 2 weeks from now, 4 weeks, 6 weeks...etc.  All I know is that the surgery will happen within 2 months of Monday, and as much as I NEVER want it to happen, I am just ready to have a date and be on the other side of this already.  The anticipation and the thoughts are the hardest and I just want it to be OVER.

As promised, we scheduled this procedure after baseball season so Stephen would not have to miss a game.  So tonight he will get to play in his play off game and tomorrow he will get to be a part of closing day ceremonies and his team party before we venture down to San Diego on Sunday morning.  

But on a light note, I wanted to share a few INCREDIBLE photos our friend, Jeremiah, took of Stephen  playing his favorite sport.  These pictures are SO precious to me.  They perfectly show Stephen in his favorite element and I just LOVE them!

This is my new FAVORITE picture EVER!!!

This boy gives it EVERYTHING to run!  He is so much slower than the other kids...but he is working SO much harder...evidence in his sweet  blue lips!

Catcher is his favorite position right now!

Honestly, I think I will miss his blue lips!  But they should be pink after his OHS!

He may be on the Cubs...but he sports his Angels helmet!

This smile...this is SO Stephen!  Mostly serious on the field, but so excited and giddy too! 

See...aren't those photos INCREDIBLE!!!!  Such a gift!!!

In other news, we got word today that we have a room at the Ronald McDonald House...YAY!  And the hospital called today to confirm Monday...it's happening.  We check into the hospital at 6am on Monday and his procedure should start at 7:30am.  We would really appreciate prayers during that time!

The reality has been tough for me.  I want to just assume everything will be fine but I can't.  I am not naive or ignorant of the inherent dangers and Joe and I will have them ALL read to us again.  And I know that sometimes REALLY faithful people get REALLY hard results.  So please, hold us all in your prayers.  We know God has been at work in Stephen's life since before he was born, and that  irregardless of the outcomes, God will continue to use his special heart for His kingdom.  But prayers for peace, strength, and protection would be greatly appreciated!

Jesus, we trust in you!

2 Weeks Away...and Already a Wreck

2 weeks from today is Stephen's Pre-Fontan Cath Lab...and I can't shake the idea that this could my last 2 weeks with him.  That, in a nut shell, is where I am at emotionally.  I BROKE down to Joe yesterday after church...like ugly, loud sobbing.  I am trying to stay strong but the truth is I am a wreck.  It's hitting me hard right now...and tears are plenty.

I already posted about "The Dreaded Cath"and all of my fears that go with it.  Stephen went into stage 2 heart block the last time (not good) and is prone to have the same outcome again. The fact is, I know all (or most) of the possibilities and I only want 1 of them.  I want the one where he tolerates it all perfectly, wakes up just fine, and in no time he is right back to his
cheerful smiley self.  I want that SO badly it hurts.  But there are no guarantees...and that is killing me.

I love God, I trust in Jesus, and I know the only guarantee I can rely on is the eternal hope that is promised.  And if I dig deep down I know that is enough...that He is enough.  Praise God that I have these truths to rely on because this hope is the one and only thing that gets me through this suffering.

But right now I am weak and can use your prayers.  I knew I would be a wreck before surgery, but I didn't expect to get hit this hard right now.  Prayer warriors...please pray these days leading up to this procedure.  Pray for God's protection over Stephen both physically and emotionally.  Pray for his siblings who are already sad that we will be apart.  Pray for Joe and I to handle this the best we can.  It is so hard hiding these tears...but I do my best!   I know we are surrounded by prayer, and I am so grateful for it!